Frequently Asked Questions
Where is the Anchored in Love retreat located?
Anchored in Love: a dream marriage retreat takes place on the breathtaking island of Isla Mujeres, Mexico—a hidden gem just off the coast of Cancun. Known for its turquoise waters, white sandy beaches, and peaceful atmosphere, Isla Mujeres is the perfect setting for a luxury retreat that blends romance, adventure, and deep connection. After arriving at Cancun International Airport, you’ll take a scenic ferry ride across the crystal-clear Caribbean waters to reach the island. From there, you’ll be welcomed into a stunning private beachfront home where every detail has been thoughtfully curated to create a five-star experience. Surrounded by ocean views, warm breezes, and the laid-back charm of island life, this retreat gives you the space to slow down, dream together, and fully focus on each other—without the distractions of daily life.
Can you tell me more about what I will experience?
No two Anchored in Love retreats will ever be the same. Each one carries its own rhythm, its own sacred moments, and a divine flow that can’t be scripted. We’ve seen time and time again how perfectly God weaves together the experience, tailoring it to the hearts of the couples who attend. What we can promise is this: You will step into a safe, welcoming, and peaceful atmosphere where you’ll have the space to encounter God and each other in a deeply personal way. While we can outline the schedule and share what’s planned, the truth is—there are no words to fully capture the transformation that happens here. Every retreat is spirit-led, intentionally designed, and powerfully orchestrated by God. Come with anticipation. Come ready. Your marriage is about to be anchored in love in ways you never imagined.
What makes this retreat different from other couples' retreats?
There are plenty of couples' retreats out there, but Anchored in Love: a dream marriage retreat isn’t just another getaway—it’s an intentional, transformational experience designed to bring you and your spouse into deeper connection, body, soul, and spirit. Here’s what sets this retreat apart:
💛 Luxury Meets Transformation – This isn’t a conference-style retreat with packed schedules and surface-level teachings. You’ll be staying in a stunning private beachfront home, indulging in five-star dining, and experiencing high-touch, personalized coaching designed to create lasting change in your marriage.
🌊 Sacred Space for Reconnection – We don’t just focus on communication techniques or date-night ideas. This retreat is about creating space for true heart connection, allowing you to heal, dream, and rediscover each other in a way that feels effortless and natural.
🔥 A Jesus-Infused Experience – While this isn’t a “church retreat,” faith is woven into everything we do. You’ll have opportunities for heart-opening encounters with God, moments of reflection, and a chance to align your marriage with divine purpose.
✨ Personalized Attention in an Intimate Setting – With only 5 couples attending, this is not a one-size-fits-all experience. Every session, every conversation, and every moment is intentionally crafted to meet you where you are in your relationship.
🚙 Adventure + Play as a Path to Connection – We believe that shared experiences create deeper bonds, which is why we incorporate fun, adventure, and island exploration into the retreat. From a sunset boat cruise to exploring the island by golf cart, you’ll not only grow together spiritually but also laugh, play, and create unforgettable memories.
❤️ More Than a Retreat—A Marriage Reset – You won’t just leave refreshed; you’ll leave with a renewed vision for your marriage, practical tools to keep the connection alive, and an anchor that holds you steady long after the retreat ends.
This is not just about fixing what’s broken. It’s about strengthening what’s already good and making it extraordinary.
Will we have private time as a couple, or is everything in a group setting?
While this retreat includes powerful guided sessions, transformational coaching, and unforgettable shared experiences, we also know that true connection happens in the quiet moments, too. That’s why most days will include dedicated private time for you and your spouse to explore the island on your golf cart, shop & savor the local culture, enjoy the beach or whatever your heart desires.
Will there be one-on-one coaching with Jimmy & Shanna?
While this retreat is designed to create organic moments of connection and transformation, we know that sometimes you need deeper guidance, clarity, or breakthrough conversations—and we’re here for that. For couples who desire personalized support, one-on-one coaching with Jimmy and Shanna will be available at no additional charge throughout the retreat. Whether you’re navigating a specific challenge, seeking deeper insight, or simply wanting to process what’s coming up for you during the experience, we are happy to sit with you, listen, and guide you through the heart of what matters most.
What is the cost of the retreat and what is included?
The Anchored in Love: a dream marriage retreat is an all-inclusive, luxury experience designed to help you and your spouse reconnect, dream together, and deepen your love in one of the most breathtaking destinations in the world. The investment for this 5-night, 6-day retreat is $5,500 per couple when paid in full at registration or $6,000 with a flexible payment plan (8 payments of $750 or 6 payments of $1,000). Your investment covers luxury accommodations in a private ocean view home on Isla Mujeres, king bedroom with ensuite bathroom including ocean view balcony, transportation from Cancun airport to the retreat location and back to Cancun airport at the end of the retreat (if traveling with the group), breakfast and dinner delicious meals prepared by a private chef, group coaching and guided connection sessions, a couples adventure excursion, a shared golf cart for exploring the island, and curated experiences designed to create lasting memories. One-on-one coaching with Jimmy and Shanna is also available at no additional charge for those who desire more personalized support. The only things not included are airfare to and from Cancun, passport fees, travel insurance, gratuities, lunches (so you can explore the island’s amazing local cuisine), and alcoholic beverages.
What is your refund or cancellation policy?
Because of the highly personalized nature of Anchored in Love: a dream marriage retreat, all registrations are non-refundable, without exception. Every detail of this experience is intentionally curated, and your commitment secures a space that cannot be easily filled last-minute. We understand that life happens—whether it’s unexpected events, travel disruptions, health concerns, or personal emergencies. However, due to the exclusivity of this retreat, we are unable to offer refunds for any reason, including but not limited to weather conditions, flight delays or cancellations, natural disasters, acts of God, medical or family emergencies, work conflicts, or a change of plans. We strongly encourage purchasing travel insurance to protect your investment in case of unforeseen circumstances. In the event that you are unable to attend, we are happy to offer a credit toward a future retreat so you can still experience this transformational journey at a later time. By registering, you acknowledge and agree to these terms. This retreat is an investment in your marriage, and we are fully committed to creating an unforgettable experience for you.
What time to fly in and out of Cancun?
We will email all flight arrival and departure details to each participant 60 days before the retreat to ensure you have plenty of time to plan your travel. ✈️
Do we need a passport?
Yes, a valid passport is required for travel to Mexico. Please ensure your passport is up to date and does not expire within six months of your travel dates. If you need to apply for or renew your passport, we recommend doing so as soon as possible to avoid any delays.
Will we have our own bathroom?
Yes! Every couple will have their own private bathroom inside their room, ensuring comfort and privacy throughout the retreat.
What type of food will be provided? What if we have dietary restrictions?
You’ll enjoy fresh, high-quality meals prepared by a private chef, featuring a mix of authentic Mexican cuisine, seafood, steak, and chicken dishes. Since we’re on an island, all ingredients will be locally sourced, offering a delicious, fresh, and flavorful dining experience. We will do our best to accommodate dietary restrictions with the resources available on the island. However, if you have specific dietary needs or preferences, we encourage you to bring any supplemental food items to ensure you have everything you need for a comfortable experience. If you have questions about specific accommodations, feel free to reach out before the retreat!
Are alcoholic beverages included?
Alcohol is allowed but not included in your retreat investment. If you’d like to enjoy your favorite drinks, you’re welcome to purchase them on the island or bring your own. We simply ask that everyone drinks responsibly and respects others who choose not to drink. Our focus is on creating a safe, welcoming, and deeply connected atmosphere for all couples to enjoy.
What kind of activities and excursions are included?
This retreat is designed to be a perfect mix of adventure, relaxation, and connection. We will have several excursions and curated experiences, but rather than a one-size-fits-all itinerary, we want to tailor them to what feels most exciting and meaningful for the couples attending. Approximately 60 days before the retreat, we will host a Zoom call with all attendees to go over the details of the trip, including the available excursion options. This allows us to personalize the experience based on your preferences while ensuring every couple gets the most out of their time on the island.
Is there a dress code for any activities or dinners?
While there’s no formal dress code, we do have one elegant dinner planned, as well as one night out on the town. We’d love for you to dress in something that makes you feel amazing—something you’d love to have a beautiful photo in to remember this experience. Other than that, wear what makes you comfortable! The retreat is all about relaxation, connection, and adventure, so bring outfits that fit both beachy vibes and casual island exploration. And of course bring your swim suit!
Is Wi-Fi available at the retreat?
Yes, the retreat house will have wi-fi in all areas.
What if we don’t know anyone else attending?
That’s completely okay—and honestly, most couples won’t! But from the moment you arrive, you’ll feel welcomed, seen, and part of something special. This retreat isn’t about surface-level small talk; it’s about genuine connection, shared experiences, and creating a space where you can just be yourselves. We’re keeping the retreat intimate with only five couples, which means you won’t feel lost in a crowd. By the end of the retreat, you’ll not only feel closer to your spouse but also walk away with new friendships and shared memories that will last long beyond our time in paradise.
Is this retreat faith-based?
This retreat will be Jesus-infused but not religious. We believe that true transformation happens when you connect deeply—with yourself, your spouse, and God. Throughout the retreat, there will be opportunities for heart encounters, reflection, and intentional moments with God, but nothing will be forced or rigid. If faith is an important part of your marriage, you’ll find this space to be deeply refreshing and aligned. And if you’re in a season of exploring what faith looks like for you, you’ll find freedom, openness, and zero pressure—just a safe space to experience love, connection, and renewal.
We are introverts—will we be required to participate in everything?
Absolutely not! This retreat is designed to honor who you are and what you need. While we have powerful group experiences and guided sessions, we also build in plenty of private time for you to recharge, explore, and connect as a couple. There’s no forced participation, no pressure to overshare, and no expectation for you to be “on” the whole time. You get to engage in a way that feels right for you. Whether you thrive in deep conversations or prefer to soak in the experience quietly, you’ll find that this retreat gives you the space to be yourself while still feeling connected and included.